I had the best surprise in a long time last Saturday when nearly 200 friends and family members gathered to celebrate my 31st birthday (10 days early.)   I had no idea that this was in the works.  Dan put this together for me, and I just love him so much.  I know a lot of other people put a lot of time and effort into making the party so wonderful.  Thank you to all who helped with food, decorations, invitations, entertainment.  Thanks to the Petersons for hosting it.  I just love that family!  Their yard was beautiful.  

 I am humbled that so many would go to so much trouble for me.  I feel so loved!  I can't believe how many people came!  It was so great to see friends I haven't seen in years, and all of the friends I've made throughout my life.  All of the hugs and love filled me with so much gratitude and strength.  To see all of you gathered together was amazing.  I have also received many cards from those who were not able to make it, so thank you to all who have sent cards. We were graced with the musical talents of Jenny Jordan Frogley, one of my very favorite Gospel/ contemporary  singers.  She sang some of my favorite songs, and her performance was awesome.    I am so grateful that she would take time out of her busy life to entertain at my party. She was simply wonderful.    

I have to share the thoughts that I had when I arrived the night of the party, and realized that it was a surprise party for me.  (I thought we were just stopping by to visit the Peterson's before Dan and I headed out to dinner)  I saw tons of balloons, and really hoped we were crashing somebody else's party.  I had a unique feeling when I walked into the beautiful backyard, and saw all of the loving, smiling faces of everyone waiting there.  There was a hushed, almost reverent feeling.  Tears welled in my eyes, as I saw all of the friends and loved ones gathered, I couldn't help but wonder if soon another gathering will be taking place.  I wonder if once I leave this life, and I enter heaven, I might see another gathering of previously deceased friends and family, waiting to greet me and celebrate my life.  I imagine it will be so similar to the sight that greeted me the night of my party.   It gives me great comfort to have this little insight to what arriving in heaven may be like!  What a party it will be!
 


Comments

Anna

Sat, 12 Sep 2009 19:28:29

We had a vacation planned for that weekend, or I would have made sure to be there. Unfortunely I also forgot to make a card. :( I had never heard of Jenny Jordan Frogley, but checked her music online and I really like it.

Anyways, I'm glad you had a great time seeing everyone. Hope your real birthday is just as great.
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Melanie Grimaud

Sun, 13 Sep 2009 20:16:15

Amber- I am so sad that I missed it. We were out of town that weekend. Thanks so much for sharing your insight with us. I love you and am praying for you and your family.

 

Mon, 14 Sep 2009 16:34:26

What a touching thought. I can't help but think of all who would be in my reunion in heaven too. Oh what a bittersweet post.
Happy Birthday!

 

Suzie

Tue, 15 Sep 2009 03:33:50

Dan and Amber,
Thanks so much for letting me be a part of the fabulous party. I was so touched by that night as well and it has caused me to really reflect on my life. I would hope that one day I can say what Amber can say as in 2 Timothy 4:7 "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith". You truly are an inspiration to me! I love you guys!
Suzie

 

jan horn

Tue, 15 Sep 2009 09:29:07

Just wanted to wish Amber Happy Birthday today. Would you please let her know we are thinking of her and her family and you are all always in our prayers and thoughts. Lots of love Aunt Jan

 

Linda Goss

Tue, 15 Sep 2009 11:26:28

Amber, I just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday today!!! And thank you for being such an inspiration to me and so many others. It is an honor to know you and live so close to you. I love your family and love your children. I promise we will all keep a close loving eye on all of them for you. and we will tell them over the years about their wonderful Mom. Enjoy your special day, I love you, Linda

 

Lori and Kevin Monson

Tue, 15 Sep 2009 15:31:38

Happy Birthday Amber!!!! We love you bunches and think of you and your special family often. We hope all of you have a great day. Aunt Lori and Uncle Kevin

 

Vickie Harkness

Tue, 15 Sep 2009 19:03:02

I just wanted to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I wanted to come to your party but Bennett and Mylie needed a babysitter, but I'm glad it was such a special night for you. Love, Vickie

 

Thu, 17 Sep 2009 23:29:01

hi amber...

it was one year ago that i wrote on your website....september 15th, our birthday. :) sounds like your day was just about perfect. i checked in tonight to see how you were doing and then remembered about the surprise party :). i loved your last paragraph. what a beautiful picture God gave you...yah, that's exactly how (well maybe :), the way it's going to be....except maybe way bigger :). happy 31st amber!!! stacy from YSC

 

Katie Chase

Sat, 19 Sep 2009 21:10:31

I was thinking about you, and I hope you know what a difference you have made in my life. I am a better person because of you--a better friend, sister, mom, daughter, aunt, etc because of your example. Thanks for helping me in my own journey through life. I love you very much!

 

Sun, 20 Sep 2009 15:07:46

Happy belated birthday, Amber! We share the same date, just me a few years sooner tho. Okay, a whole lot sooner!

Your blog has been such an inpiration to me as I went through my own journey with breast cancer and treatment. Your testament to enjoy life and your family despite what the body is going through is truly remarkable.

xoxoxox

Renee

 

Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:33:02

Amber, Happy Birthday! I am working on a new project that I am very excited about. I am writing a book about the cancer blogging phenomenon - its scope, aspirations, and reasons for being. I plan to highlight some of the best writing from our blogging community.
As I have previously published your writing in my weekly Guest Post feature at Being cancer, networking people transformed by cancer, I am hoping to get your preliminary permission to use some of your material in the book. I will, of course, give full credit as well as link information. I would also like to arrange for all contributors to receive complimentary copies.
I have not yet secured a publishing contract. But I want to get started compiling some chapters prior to submitting my proposal to a publisher. So if this sounds like something you might be interested in being a part of, please contact me by email. I will be able to tell you the specific posts I am interested in. Please include off-blog contact information.

Dennis W. Pyritz, RN, BA, BSN
beingcancer@att.net

 

Sat, 26 Sep 2009 06:24:46

What a profound post: the party, the surprise, your friends gathered round, the amazing clarity & insight you received.... the music.

What an example of possibilities -- even in the face of the unthinkable. Thank you for letting the rest of us catch a glimmer of Love-in-Action.

Sending prayers daily.
xx00xx00xx00xx

 



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