My heart has been very heavy these last few days. I received bad news with my last blood test. My tumor markers have risen again, and some other blood work came back indicating that there may be some organ (either heart, lung, or liver) damage. I will be having a Pet-CT scan on Thursday 1-22-09 to see what is going on. We also have Bekah's district spelling Bee that night (she took second place in the school spelling Bee, Yeah Bekah!!!!) Blake also has a church basketball game that night. I hope I don't feel too worn out or sick so I can support my great kids.
I am still struggling emotionally. I fear greatly that my time on the Earth is growing shorter and shorter. I have just been so tired lately, and my pain has increased. I plead with Heavenly Father several times daily that my life will be prolonged, that I will still be able to be here on Earth, to be a wife, mother, sister, daughter and friend a little longer. I still hope for a miracle, that maybe some chemo drug will knock the cancer into remission or even just shrink the tumors.
My faith wavers as these prayers have not been answered. I know I need to align my will with with that of my Heavenly Father, but it sure would be a lot easier if His will was exactly what I wanted. It is difficult to put faith in my Heavenly Father that everything will work out okay if I pass away from cancer. I worry about my dear husband and children. My heart breaks every time I think of leaving them. I can't hardly bear the thought. I try to take comfort that they are mine forever, but I want to be with them today, tomorrow and always. I want to grow old with the love of my life. I always wanted to have a 6th child. I never wanted to be done at 5 children. I miss teaching piano lessons, and serving others. I appreciate the service that is given me, but wish that I could be the one serving. Dan & I have always talked about that we wanted to serve a mission together once our children were grown. All these hopes and wishes and dreams are ones that are never going to come true. I can only hope and try to have faith that I will still have purpose, either in this life or the one beyond. I know the Lord can heal us from our illness and afflictions, as long as we are not appointed unto death. I am beginning to feel that I am indeed appointed unto death. This is a hard thing for me to come to terms with.
My heart is breaking even more tonight because Tyson's, my brother in law, father passed away from brain cancer this evening. A part of me is glad that his father is no longer suffering, and that he is in a better place with loved ones who have passed away before. However, a large part of me grieves for the family and friends left behind. I dread the day that I cause sorrow like this. We all need to remember that this life is but just a small moment, and that after our earthly mission is over, we will be together with our loved ones in joy forever. Easier said than done, believe me. But I am so grateful that I have this knowledge, otherwise there is no way I would be able to get through the days of sadness, grief, and physical suffering.
I apologize once again to my blog readers for another downer post. If I keep on being so down, you may all stop reading. I hope to have a good week with fun and happy things to post.
Here are a couple of cute photos to make up for the downer posts. I thought everyone would get a laugh out of the pictures of my sister wearing my wig. One day she came over to help, and just for fun she tried on my different wigs. We laughed so hard, and I thought you all would get a kick out of seeing my sister Heather "Wiggin Out". She looks great, huh!!
I took this picture Christmas morning. The world is so beautiful when it is covered with a pristine layer of white snow. I so enjoy the beauty of the seasons.
Here are a couple more cute pictures from Disney Land. One day I will get a lot more photos put up on the photos page. My eyes get tired and my head hurts when I spend too much time on the computer.
My cute 2 little boys, Caleb and Ammon, who always bring me such joy and can always make me smile!